Welcome to my eZine!
Ezine #3 - Is he just no good for you?
Psychologists estimate that up to 55% of men are bad news
when it comes to their intimate relationships so it’s not
surprising that many of us find ourselves with toxic guys. So
what’s a girl to do? Valentine’s Day is coming up which means
it’s a good time to think about having the love you really
want. In my latest book, He’s Just No Good For You: A Guide
to Getting Out of a Destructive Relationship, I talk about lies
and deception—women’s kryptonite—red flags to look out
for
when getting involved with a man as well as watching out for
“the dirty dozen”—profiles of destructive individuals
that help
you to identify them. Good men may be hard to find, but it
can be done! Here’s what to look for:
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Does the man you’re with/dating take your opinions
into account? -
Does he respect your choices even if he expresses
concerns or differing views? -
Is he emotionally available?
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How does he handle conflict?
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Is he prone to lying and mind games or answers
you honestly? -
Does he do things to make you feel secure in the
relationship or does he purposefully disrupt your
bond by engaging you in crazy-making arguments,
peppering his words with cutting comments or by
manipulating you to throw you off-balance?
Remember, all relationships take some work, but the good
ones have flow, they’re loving despite occasional ups and
downs….you don’t spend so much time trying to recover from
abusive, crazy-making behavior. Instead, you have time for
romance, talking until dawn, laughing at each other’s jokes,
making love…you have time to be happy Valentines!
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